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Tuesday, May 26, 2015

The Ride

Since I last updated this blog, my life has sped along the proverbial roller coaster - full of exciting highs and a few disheartening dives. The ride has transformed me in many ways and in reflection of the past four years, I feel proud of the man I have become.

In 2012, my wife and I moved from our apartment in Folsom into the home of my youth...but not before putting our own touch during a lengthy renovation. I never would've imagined myself installing bathroom vanities, replacing electrical outlets, and navigating the darkness of our home's cramped crawlspace. (Quick aside: Wallpaper is evil. Removing it is the worst.)

Creepy Crawlspacing
While discovering new gifts for home improvement, my musical talents were not neglected. Some highlights include an exciting tune from my Hip-Hop band (The Shades of Gray) which got some rotation on local radio for a bit and a new holiday EP from my acoustic trio (The Zoo Human Project) with which we were able to raise money for a worthy cause.

My time at the Creative Arts & Music Center has continued to be a source of great inspiration and pride. I absolutely adore each of my students (present AND past) and I'm eternally grateful to them and their families for the privilege of helping them grow as expressive young people. And - over the past four years - my, have they grown!
The kids made me do it!

2013 brought with it a very difficult period for my wife and I. Twenty-two weeks into pregnancy, our first child Baby DJ came into the world. Too tiny and frail to survive, he lived for only eight minutes before we had to say goodbye to him. All the hopes and dreams we had for our son, the sound of his laughter, everything...left with him. And we slipped into darkness...

Decorated for DJ
We emerged a year later, pregnant again and cautiously optimistic. However, under the care of our diligent medical team and by the grace of God, we were able to rejoice with the birth of our second son. After a week-long tussle with jaundice, we were finally able to bring the little rascal home. Thus began our new life as over-tired, madly in-love parents of our baby, Noah.
Funny Boy
Four years ago today, I woke from valve-replacement surgery groggy and weak, but determined; vulnerable, but hopeful. Since then, that determination and hope has helped me negotiate the twists and turns of my life. Yet through it all, I have not been alone. My wife, my family, and my friends have all played a tremendous part in me reaching today with their love, encouragement, and support. These four years - and everything after - I dedicate to you. Thank you!